Suckin too much juice from them will kill them faster than anything. And an anecdote:
I flew for quite a while with a Himax 2015 4100 and a CC P10. No sweat. Hooked the Razor 350 up and fried the CC P10 in a few flights...it musta drawed more amps than the Himax, but at the time I didn't have a Whattmeter to check it.
And you just started using a Razor.
If you follow Castle Creations directions on LVC setting and have it set for 7.2V and soft cut, you can draw them down pretty good below 3V/cell. Not saying this is your problem, but that it is a potential cause. Drawing the cells down below 3V will hurt them, also.
Now about the batteries. The Etecs were rated at 7.5C I think. That's 9 amps max. My Razor 350 draws 11.2A off an Etec, that's 9.3C. So it goes without saying this is too hard on the Etecs. If your ThunderPower is not the newest version, it's only good for 8C, or about 11A. This pack sould have been able to handle the current draw as long as you didn't ever drag it down to less than 3V/cell.
OK back to the Razor.. Drew 11.2A off the Etecs. Hook it up to a Tanic and it draws 13A. Goes from 105 watts to 125 watts..20% more power. What this means is it was just hammering the Etecs. You can't look at it as "Well, I was only drawing 11A.." It was drawing every bit of juice the battery could provide, killing the battery. Luckily for my packs, death was dealt out in short bursts of full throttle. Hook it up to a battery that can deliver, and now it shows it's true potential. And it tells me how big of a pack I need to fly it.
Or a smaller pack??
Enter the Irate 1100. This pack, although only an 1100Mah pack, can do 10C continuous, 12C bursts. So it can deliver the amps needed to both make the Razor happy and not self destruct. This is what I use on my Razor now.
The new Tanics are 12C continous, 15C bursts. So now you can run a 1050Mah pack and deliver more amps than the 1350 TP could.
So I imagine you just rode your packs a little hard. If you only have a couple, it's tempting to put one back on the charger before it's cooled completely down, and this is not good on them either. They need to cool completely down before you charge them
I don't know what's the BEST battery out there, but I have pretty much settled on Tanics. I like them, they have individual cell taps built in, and they are just fine batteries. If I can't get them, I use Irates. Plus Pauly is a Tanic dealer 8)